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Everyone is freaking out for nothing. She won't say anything to Loid. Plus, even if she was bold enough to tell Loid, like Anya would stop her from saying anything. I know Anya can read people's minds. She would stop her from spilling anything.
trueeee i don't really think she'll confess what her real job is, maybe just indirectly ask for reassurance that what she's doing is okay or even admirable like in her flashback
Pros: The plot is actually progressing
Cons: divorce, they might divorce, nobody wants a separation arc. Not the Divorceee