Twink discrimination??

AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 9:30 am

Why do people hate the twink so much?? Tattoo guy is just as bad, if not worse, than the twink He's kinda prettier and more jacked, but that's it. Honestly, I hope Nanjo leaves both their asses for good, he deserves better But since that's obviously not gonna happen, I hope tattoo suffers wayyyyy more before any further progress.

Responses
    Abijyn June 24, 2025 9:38 am

    Seonhwa is faking being innocent and playing with Nanjo's feelings
    while Mokyeon is openly being an azzhole

    CatLady June 24, 2025 10:18 am

    Tattoo guy is not a saint and is kinda bad but at least he’s showing is true colors from the start, while the twink is pretending to be someone else while only using the guy for his money and fucking other people and also talking bad about him and his vanilla s’x, so honestly I think the tattoo guy is better cause at least he really likes the rich guy

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 10:40 am
    Seonhwa is faking being innocent and playing with Nanjo's feelingswhile Mokyeon is openly being an azzhole Abijyn

    Both Seonhwa and Mokyeon are players and as*holes. Seonhwa's doing what he's always done (not justifying it, I hate him too), but Mokyeon's now: blackmailing Nanjo, sleeping with Nanjo behind Seonhwa's back, absolutely sh*tting on his deal with Nanjo, despising and nearly killing Seonhwa when they're supposed to be best friend f*ck-buddies or whatever. At least Seonhwa's honest with Mokyeon. Also, he has NO respect for boundaries, comfort, safe words, or any of the important stuff in sex. He's literally ignored Nanjo (a first-timer) when he's in pain, begs him to stop, and even faints. That's not edgy BDSM, it's just assault. Which is worse than Seonhwa in my book.

    najahbajablast June 24, 2025 10:41 am

    Because they’re delusional. The MC is so much worse . All your “ Love “ goes out the window once you rape and blackmail somebody. Yeah the twink is a liar . But not a blackmail rapist who thinks an obsession and a crush cancels all the fucked up shit he’s done .

    najahbajablast June 24, 2025 10:46 am
    Both Seonhwa and Mokyeon are players and as*holes. Seonhwa's doing what he's always done (not justifying it, I hate him too), but Mokyeon's now: blackmailing Nanjo, sleeping with Nanjo behind Seonhwa's back, ab... AnotherFlyOnTheWall

    Somebody with common sense.

    najahbajablast June 24, 2025 10:59 am
    Tattoo guy is not a saint and is kinda bad but at least he’s showing is true colors from the start, while the twink is pretending to be someone else while only using the guy for his money and fucking other pe... CatLady

    His “ feelings” don’t outweigh all the fucked up shit he’s done . He doesn’t even respect the basics in BDSM . Only by the grace of Najo he actually took the pillow off .

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 11:03 am
    Tattoo guy is not a saint and is kinda bad but at least he’s showing is true colors from the start, while the twink is pretending to be someone else while only using the guy for his money and fucking other pe... CatLady

    You can read my other reply on this comment for my whole breakdown on why I personally think tattoo is worse than twink. I don't believe openly being a red flag is all that better than secretly being one. Also, twink is two-faced and a little b*tch, but tattoo is equally two-faced. I don't think he's better just because he's catching feelings for the first time. When you like someone, you generally DON'T resort to blackmailing them, borderline assaulting them, lying to them, and deliberately hurting the person you know they like. I mean, it's WORSE doing all that when you realize you actually like them, right?

    CatLady June 24, 2025 11:16 am
    His “ feelings” don’t outweigh all the fucked up shit he’s done . He doesn’t even respect the basics in BDSM . Only by the grace of Najo he actually took the pillow off . najahbajablast

    Yeah the pillow thing was bad ngl

    CatLady June 24, 2025 11:22 am
    You can read my other reply on this comment for my whole breakdown on why I personally think tattoo is worse than twink. I don't believe openly being a red flag is all that better than secretly being one. Also,... AnotherFlyOnTheWall

    But I don’t think we can call it blackmail plus nanjo agreed to it and during their first time he stopped and during the second he told him that what he wanted wasn’t to hurt him but to feel good together. Tattoo guy is of course a yellow/red flag but he’s trying to change. What about the twink? He doesn’t give a s*it about him, openly cheating and lying, making nanjo believe that the only bad guy here is the tattoo one while he didn’t even snitch about his friend to nanjo

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 12:14 pm
    But I don’t think we can call it blackmail plus nanjo agreed to it and during their first time he stopped and during the second he told him that what he wanted wasn’t to hurt him but to feel good together. ... CatLady

    It most certainly is blackmail. Threatening to abuse the person someone likes if they don't have sex with you is... the definition of blackmail. Both twink and tattoo openly cheat—they're terrible people.

    But twink isn't lying to tattoo, while tattoo IS betraying twink (yes, as much of an asshole as twink is, it's still betrayal) and they're both fucking over Nanjo, a third-party dude who got stuck between them. Tattoo never told Nanjo the truth about twink either because he doesn't actually care about his feelings. He's using the fact that Nanjo wholeheartedly believes twink is good and that he is bad to assault him. Which is worse than letting someone believe you're innocent even when you're not.

    My point is, twink is a b*tch for what he's doing to Nanjo (i.e. cheating, badmouthing), but tattoo is nearly irredeemable for what he's doing to both of them (i.e. blackmail, coercion, assault, lying to both, attempted murder) especially considering he and twink were the original partners in crime.

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 1:00 pm
    Because they’re delusional. The MC is so much worse . All your “ Love “ goes out the window once you rape and blackmail somebody. Yeah the twink is a liar . But not a blackmail rapist who thinks an obsess... najahbajablast

    PREACH. MC seriously needs a reality check. Only heartless, entitled, f*cked-up people act the way he does. (It's super common in BL, but that doesn't mean we have to like it.) I'm hooked to the art in this one (and Nanjo </3), but if this tat b#st#rd isn't brutally called out and humbled soon, the art just won't be enough to make up for him anymore.

    I don't know why my replies to you keep getting deleted :( but I'm trying again.

    najahbajablast June 24, 2025 1:41 pm
    PREACH. MC seriously needs a reality check. Only heartless, entitled, f*cked-up people act the way he does. (It's super common in BL, but that doesn't mean we have to like it.) I'm hooked to the art in this one... AnotherFlyOnTheWall

    LITERALLY! Even attempting to defend the MC in any ways is bonkers to me . Saying that the twink lying and bad mouthing is worse than everything the MC has done because at least “ He actually likes him “ like do these people hear themselves??? Rape is okay because the person doing it has genuine feelings???? That shit doesn’t make any sense.

    All this is proving what everyone always says about bl readers “ Rape is excusable as long as the character is sexy enough.”

    CatLady June 24, 2025 2:27 pm
    It most certainly is blackmail. Threatening to abuse the person someone likes if they don't have sex with you is... the definition of blackmail. Both twink and tattoo openly cheat—they're terrible people.But ... AnotherFlyOnTheWall

    Yeah I get what you are saying. But all of it started cause the twink wanted to show nanjo the type of s*x he likes while being innocent so the tattoo guy is seen as the abuser cause of that type of s*x which is also the twink’s kink. Plus in my opinion nanjo doesn’t even like the twink, he’s got more like a savior complex and he knows that basically everybody wants him for his money so he doesn’t open up to people

    CatLady June 24, 2025 2:35 pm
    It most certainly is blackmail. Threatening to abuse the person someone likes if they don't have sex with you is... the definition of blackmail. Both twink and tattoo openly cheat—they're terrible people.But ... AnotherFlyOnTheWall

    All that aside, I’m still saying he’s a bad guy too of course. We are reading this while knowing how it usually goes in bl

    AnotherFlyOnTheWall June 24, 2025 7:51 pm
    LITERALLY! Even attempting to defend the MC in any ways is bonkers to me . Saying that the twink lying and bad mouthing is worse than everything the MC has done because at least “ He actually likes him “ li... najahbajablast

    God, you're so right, the number of times I've lost my faith in humanity hearing "but it's just fiction" and "at least he's hot" and "he redeems himself later, so it's okay" is low-key painful. Rape should never be romanticized, in fiction or otherwise, and the fact that people have a hard time accepting something that objectively moral is so concerning. BL will always have a nasty rep because of the community, how authors and readers are so obsessed with their rape scenes, dismissing or justifying them when they're literally so inhumane. Glad someone agrees, though :')