like he lets things slides bc obviously hes known gilhan for awhile and gen believe gilhan is good and is js going through smth, hence why gilhans in a gang + suhan defending him
I don't think it's stupid that a lot of people thought he was way older than suhan because that's what usually happens iykwim? Like when he wanted suhan to dress in that maid outfit like that was so predatory idk I know now that he's only a year older which makes it less weird and stuff, but it's still weird. Plus he looks old, the way he looks and dresses.
You can still be groomed by someone who’s the same age as you or close to it. That kind of thing definitely exists
tbh i think gilhans weird but like, its not grooming its just an obsession/obsessive crush. gilhan and suhan were all they both had and its clear theyre both protective of each other, like give suhan credit, he can make his own decisions and wouldve said something if he was uncomfortable(and does) + gilhan was the only person who was there for him and vice versa. im alr p sure gilhan is gonna going down a bad obsessive route, but like theyre relationship RIGHT NOW isnt weird, js mentally unstable and vulnerable ppl finding solace in each other so saying grooming was kind of a stretch