I had a Jae-Heon once. What makes them worse than any other horrible ex is their complete self belief in their “good guy” persona/reputation that they are genuinely unaware of how egomaniacal and manipulative and controlling they actually are. You aren’t a person to them, you are a mirror to them or a checkbox and once their reflection begins revealing something that reflects upon that “good guy” image poorly or you no longer fit nicely in the checkbox of “his” goals… you are slowly rejected through their total neglect of you. It’s the culmination of days of silence that you realize…i’ve been dumped. Horrible humans
I had a Jae-Heon once. What makes them worse than any other horrible ex is their complete self belief in their “good guy” persona/reputation that they are genuinely unaware of how egomaniacal and manipulative and controlling they actually are. You aren’t a person to them, you are a mirror to them or a checkbox and once their reflection begins revealing something that reflects upon that “good guy” image poorly or you no longer fit nicely in the checkbox of “his” goals… you are slowly rejected through their total neglect of you. It’s the culmination of days of silence that you realize…i’ve been dumped. Horrible humans