Mmh

He wants to be honest, but the reason he’s not is because he’s scared to scare her away.. their relationship is just starting and she just ended a 13 year long marriage. You gotta understand why he’s not communicating every single thing with her. And he usually is super honest like he’ll stay upfront that he likes her. There are literally moments where she’s yelling at him for being with her because she’s old and he’s saying like truthfully he doesn’t care that she’s old that he likes her anyways. She’s a heavy Over-thinker and that’s why he knows to take it really slow and he’s able to predict her overthinking and find ways to reassure her without even being able to use words.

She freshly left a relationship of 13 years where she was being verbally abused and she doesn’t know what’s healthy and what’s normal meaning if anyone is going to pursue her, they have to take it extremely slow because this girl literally doesn’t know better, and if something healthy comes running at her with full speed she’s gonna run away because she never seen healthy before or experienced it.. for their relationship to work it has to be extremely extremely slow at the beginning, and genuinely considering how annoyingly she overthink every single thing without communicating either because she’s a horrible communicator, like genuinely every problem they had in their relationship is because of her overthinking and her lack of communication, I think that Tae-ha is doing really really well, considering the fact that she just exited that relationship, he’s not only doing so much for her, but he’s sacrificing so much for her..

sorry if im misunderstanding but taehas love for her is not healthy at all. i do agree that hes doing well in taking it slow, but i also do think that its not the healthiest thing to manipulate so much behind the scenes. but alas if their rlship works out like that then i guess it works. just that idk how itll be when the fl finds out (if ever)