I love how my fellow old people are gathering in this comment section … the comment sect...

I'm a 32 yo hag who won't ever stop reading my BL/yaoi

Duuuude yes!!! The younger readers are made of crystal, they don't tolerate anything hahaha. Im here with you, 38 and not getting younger but wiser XD

fr BL has been with me since what middle school and I’m working full time since … I can’t even remember

nowadays people will be offended by the smallest things! Finder wouldnt survive A DAY in 2025 HAHAHA

I was having a fight with a kid the other day (yeah, shame on me) because of Koisuru boukun. I don't like non-con, like, at all, and I understand that's a preference, but I'm not here calling people names for their liking, now, that's not the point, the kid stated endlessly that Koisuru boukun was abussive, it was rape, and plenty other things, and tbh, I didn't remember details of the thing so I went and re-read it, and I couldn't facepalm myself harder, I swear the newer generations have this strange thing going on about canceling everything without trying to understand a little bit, and you will not have ME defending non-con hahahaha yet I couldn't make the kid understand that Senpai is just too dense for his sake XD ANYWAY yeah, most of the yaoi we grew up with will not survive nowadays.

My dear friend, I’m having fights on here so often with people who are probably half my age as well haha!!! It’s so difficult not to!

The non con thing is definitely a problem in the community, but most people are kinda forcing this. I’m also NOT a defender of rapists and abusive relationships. But I do read and consume media IN A RIGHT WAY. Calling everything rape (or grooming omg. Age gap is so dangerous here LMAO) is kinda … well problematic itself haha …

Oh well I’m just glad that some of the classics are still alive!!! Also koisuru boukun omg how could I forget this gem <333

Yes!!! What is their deal with the age gap???? Or with callling everything grooming.
Like!!! I just had this intense fight with someone due to Tian guang ci fu, stating that Xie Lian was a groomer and a pedo because he's dating someone who was a child 800 years ago, AND that the pair was problematic. I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD there's not a pair less problematic than HuaLian hahahahaha.

These kids seem to forget people grow up, and people don't stay as children forever. And that it's whomever's business if they want to be in a relationship with someone 20 years older, just as long as one of them is not a kid anymore. That they met when one of them was 3 and the other 20 but they dated when the smaller one was 20 and the other 43?? FINE BY ME!! NO PROBLEM THERE! Now shut up!!


And yes!! go read Koisuru boukun, I had an amazing read now that I'm older.

People trying to come at hualian are brave af because they are one of the most powerful couple out there!!

They are trying to be woke and all… the hypocrisy haha …

And I will!!!! Also the animation ლ(´ڡ`ლ)

Lol yeah they are woke but can't handle og wokeness.
Everything is always red flag green flag and sexual abuse for them

Love both your pfp and username haha!

Yeah it’s good speaking up about it since it is an issue in the BL genre but most of them are quick to use heavy allegations as such … I also see many people kink shaming. They live in their black and white world with vanilla content haha

Yeah and I also remembered one of the classics Ai To Yokubou Wa Gakuen De which has similar theme to this manga (I have reread both recently since I missed them).

OMG I think about this like once a week and I never remembered the name … YOU ARE MY SAVIOUR HAHAH

You're welcome :)
I also only remembered the Gakuen part of the name to search for it everytime lol

Thanks!! <3