Because you've seen it as a domestic abuse type of slap. Its okay to feel uncomfortable when it happens, but make sure you understand that you need to heal properly in order to enjoy this type of bl.
I don’t think it’s right to imply something is wrong with someone because they are turn off by someone hitting their partner in the face. Some things are just not for some people. You can enjoy certain elements and not like others. BDSM is a spectrum and you don’t have to be cool with everything.
i agree!!
Exactly. It does make me think of a domestic violence but it mostly just makes me uncomfortable. I enjoy many things I read about BDSM but some don't resonate with me and that's okay. Just means I have my own preference and others have theirs. Loved your comment
I agree with you in some parts but I don't think healing and learning to like it is part of the equation. I read plenty of hardcore things but there are a few scenes that are not tailored for my liking. Not saying that stories like this shouldn't be done or that I will stop reading it because this is the only thing that I don't like and is not a deal breaker for me
Love the story and the scenes but the face slapping just gives me a turn off real quickly. Don't know why