I mean, the guy was clear about his boundaries from the start. he only wanted a casual relationship, not something serious. It doesn’t make sense for the girl to suddenly act like a victim when he sticks to what he said. Now people are seeing him as the bad guy, which feels unfair. Just because someone doesn’t want deep attachment or a serious commitment, they get labeled a 'playboy' or 'heartbreaker'.That’s not right. Everyone has the right to define the kind of relationship they’re comfortable with. Wanting something casual doesn't make someone a villain. It’s especially frustrating when someone agrees to those terms at first, then turns around and blames the other person for being 'cold' or 'unfaithful' just because they couldn’t handle being rejected or didn’t get what they secretly wanted. Cursing someone for being honest about their boundaries is manipulative, not emotional. People really need to start respecting others' boundaries and emotional honesty instead of twisting things to make someone else look guilty."
I mean, the guy was clear about his boundaries from the start. he only wanted a casual relationship, not something serious. It doesn’t make sense for the girl to suddenly act like a victim when he sticks to what he said. Now people are seeing him as the bad guy, which feels unfair.
Just because someone doesn’t want deep attachment or a serious commitment, they get labeled a 'playboy' or 'heartbreaker'.That’s not right. Everyone has the right to define the kind of relationship they’re comfortable with. Wanting something casual doesn't make someone a villain.
It’s especially frustrating when someone agrees to those terms at first, then turns around and blames the other person for being 'cold' or 'unfaithful' just because they couldn’t handle being rejected or didn’t get what they secretly wanted. Cursing someone for being honest about their boundaries is manipulative, not emotional.
People really need to start respecting others' boundaries and emotional honesty instead of twisting things to make someone else look guilty."