
Hope these help!
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sesame_salt_and_pudding/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/first_of_summers/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/shoushin_otoko_ni_haru_no_arashi/ (not 40+ but yeah is older than seme)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_ga_ochitara/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/sui_mo_amai_mo/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/life_senjou_no_bokura/ (not exactly what you are asking for, but they found each other again when they are in their late 30s)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/love_nest_minaduki_yuu/ (I don't think he is 40+, maybe in his late 30s, I don't remember lol but seme is old)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/on_doorstep/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/koi_wo_suru_tsumori_wa_nakatta/ (uke is 30, not that old lol, but story is good)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oni_to_tengoku/
Anyone recommend any old people romance? Like they loved another person or have been married before but found second chances in love in their 40+ age. Doesn't matter if it’s wlw, mlm, or straight romance as long as it’s good.