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So like at first like the first time they do it he’s a little forceful (lowkey quite a bit but idk if to call it rape actually if the uke didn’t like him it would’ve been) but like other than that it’s been pretty smooth sailing (many sad parts) like he’s a little possessive but not horrible to the uke he’s just hurt because of something that happened a long time ago

I can’t remember exactly how their first time went but the word you’re probably looking for is dub-con (dubious consent). People use that tag on ao3 to describe varying levels of consent (ex: mildly dubious consent, dubious consent, extremely dubious consent) and I low-key wish people would use those terms on here too because like you said rape doesn’t always feel like the right word if that makes sense.

I hope that didn’t seem like I was trying to be rude or anything, I was just trying to like explain a term that I feel like is helpful.

Thanks! I was struggling to come up with a word a phrasing to explain it

No problem!