Yess!! This!!!! Preach
Ari is like 25 or 27, she's way past being too young and impressionable to be exempt from all responsibilities. She's for sure gonna get knocked up and either be left as a single man or be stuck with deadbeat Mincheol who'll cheat on her with another girl, this time younger than herself.
I feel absolutely no sympathy for her.
How
Exactly. She is too much of a grown woman for us to excuse her behaviours when she can do better. People just don't want to hold her accountable
I refuse to defend her.
Yup I remember it said she was 27. Plus I feel like ppl forget that she blatantly said to wreck her car just so she can use her dad’s affection for her to get a brand new one.
bruh :)) I thought no one would even defend her but turns out there are :))
my gosh I can't even bother to continue :'>
*single mom, not single man lmao
The Ari defenders highlight a fatal flaw with feminism and women in general. They defend her right to partake in hurting another woman. She was caught in someone's house and at first she even leaves but goes running back to him the moment he says shit she wants to hear. Doesn't probe the whole situation thoroughly at all. She saw the red flags and actively chose to ignore them. This excuse of he didn't tell her is so lousy. Y'all act like she has two pebbles dancing in her head instead of a brain. Another excuse is she's young and that there is a large age gap. She's not a teenager. Maybe it's the character design skewing y'all's perception of her. She even has a discussion with her friends about it and I think one of them cautions her but that is thrown in the wind. She wants to be wanted. She is like so many women that throw away their brain when it comes to being wanted. Like she only ever gets fucked and she doesn't stand up for herself to see she's being used.
Don't compare her to na haesoo who had nearly two decades history with this man. They were both teenagers who loved each other. Who goes into life with the love they had thinking things would change so drastically??? We've seen the backstory anyone would think they'd make it but reality is that even true love most times cannot survive the pressure of capitalism. Y'all are trivialising how na haesoo was systemically trapped with debt to defend a stupid greedy woman that couldn't keep her heart and legs closed especially when she could. Ari has made her whole relationship with minshit being wanted. She's a shallow woman that compliments his equally shallow existence. She set herself up to be a body he can run to and fuck and that's on her. She can be there for him all she wants. Ari lacks the discernment a grown woman should have. She wasn't manipulated for years for her not to make better choices. She herself begged him for a baby when she barely knew him and it's not like she wants to know him all she wants to hear is how much he wants her.