I know 2 girls exactly like her, they've been like this since I was young, I was naive sad...

IWalkedWithYouOnceUponADream July 12, 2025 2:53 pm

I know 2 girls exactly like her, they've been like this since I was young, I was naive sadly, no too kind. I knew they were bad I just forgave..they were thievesand disgusting abusers, now as adults I don't know anymore, who to trust, it's so hard. If anyone has tips on how to recognize someone who genuinely wishes the worst for you and vice versa, please share

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    MsSideKick July 12, 2025 8:58 pm

    I read books from Robert Greene, esp. Laws of human nature. I read about so many behaviours in there that it helped me to see when people genuinely cared and when they used me to make themselves look better. I still struggle with connections but the ones I made after I read this book are... more genuine? Like there is no hidden competition and I can express my opinion and I am not shamed for whatever I say. Idk

    IWalkedWithYouOnceUponADream July 13, 2025 6:54 am
    I read books from Robert Greene, esp. Laws of human nature. I read about so many behaviours in there that it helped me to see when people genuinely cared and when they used me to make themselves look better. I ... MsSideKick

    Oh, so do you think it's really helpful? Honestly these kinds of books scare me cause I feel like it's mean TwT or I worry I'd be mean or smth, but..is it really good? If its helpful.. thank you for letting me know

    MsSideKick July 13, 2025 12:38 pm
    Oh, so do you think it's really helpful? Honestly these kinds of books scare me cause I feel like it's mean TwT or I worry I'd be mean or smth, but..is it really good? If its helpful.. thank you for letting me ... IWalkedWithYouOnceUponADream

    No no no, you are fine! I read them just to understand why people were mean in the first place. It's a good study to protect yourself against them, I don't use the techniques in there. I found it helpful to weed out bad people (๑•ㅂ•)و✧