Why are people agreeing with the brother that Jiho is sketchy? Like it's fine for him to s...

Lilywhite44 July 13, 2025 7:35 am

Why are people agreeing with the brother that Jiho is sketchy? Like it's fine for him to say he does not know his situation but we do and you choose to abandon him for it? Yall would leave a severely mentally unwell person who thinks he's undeserving of love and gets himself hurt for fun all to himself all because he feels bad that he never felt his family's love the same way as Yoonjoon?

Responses
    ZenRyu July 13, 2025 8:28 pm

    It's actually quite practical. If it were real life I'd stay away from Jiho as well, as I don't have the patience or perseverance to take on a hurt person. Generally, people like Jiho will hurt you as self defense even if you're just trying to be kind to them. Of course they deserve love; lots and lots of love to make up for their childhood trauma.

    ZenRyu July 13, 2025 8:33 pm
    It's actually quite practical. If it were real life I'd stay away from Jiho as well, as I don't have the patience or perseverance to take on a hurt person. Generally, people like Jiho will hurt you as self defe... ZenRyu

    Ah, I forgot to add the important bit. They're only able to recover from their trauma when they're ready to accept love. You can't force love on them.

    Jieun July 19, 2025 8:43 pm
    It's actually quite practical. If it were real life I'd stay away from Jiho as well, as I don't have the patience or perseverance to take on a hurt person. Generally, people like Jiho will hurt you as self defe... ZenRyu

    Yep. People like jiho deserve love and professional therapies, but they are draining
    Not everyone has the mental capacity to fix someone and constantly pouring love and energy onto them.
    Kinds of jiho are way too much to handle