Yk, after reading your rant. I know have a massive beef with ur sis, also r u okay now?
Just by reading this I can already tell that your sis is a brat, with how they're siding with her and everything (sorry, I'm not really good with words) but you can always lean on me if you want to let it out, i will listen:) hope you're doing okay now!!
anon sorry to say this but your sister is a bitch and your parents are awful people. must be hard living around them
hope you can get independent soon and move out to a house you can call home. until then, stay strong pls. better days are there for you, i pray
Damn! How are you feeling right now? Are you feeling better? Hope you're doing alright now.
Are u okey girl, even though we're strangers, we're here to support u <3
Also, why are some parents like this. These types of parents are the worst (sorry for the term but yeah). They always invalidate our feelings and would not hear our sides. Honestly, its mentally and physically draining to be in this kind of household. No one should be treated like this :/
I'm sorry that you have to suffer like that. But I will advise that you don't share personal stuff on mangago cuz there are some psychopaths here who will use your trauma to bully you.
Reddit would be a far better place to share your life problems. People will be more empathetic and give the best advice there.
THIS!! They always look through the wrongs than the rights, it's like they follow what the "youngest" says because it's more "relevant" and also because "kids don't lie". When they know for a fact that kids DO lie, they just do what they think is right. They know (or maybe they don't) that they're invalidating their own kid's feelings but they still continue.
i second this. its okay to rant for now but make sure to delete it after a while. if u ever piss a weirdo off on here they'll dig this up to harass u more, they're vile as fuck.
also i hope u feel better soon ! =)
It’s not your fault at all. She had the time and she was offered the money to get what she needs after her class. If she is ignoring you, when you went out of your way to keep reminding her and asking her then that is her problem. If she isn’t taking the time to get what she needs then she probably couldn’t care less or she’s just a lazy bitch. Your parents clearly show favoritism toward your sister if they aren’t even willing to listen to your side of the story. You listened to them and she decided to sit around all day. Your mother shouldn’t have yelled at you and your father should’ve listened to your feelings. To yell at you to the point of making you cry and still send you out to get HER supplies is messed up. If she really needed it she should’ve got it herself. Overall in no way it is your fault for doing what you were told. Don’t belittle yourself and think it is your fault when you did nothing wrong.
this is my face right now :(
hope you'll get out of that hellhole soon love
till then, just know, that it shall too pass, like everything
I'm so sorry you have to live with this people, because this is literally nothing (seriously unless even if your sister needed the materials for tomorrow and you purposefully didn't go, that still is not enough reason to be so angry) yet they made such a fuss about it, of course you're stressed I can't imagine what would they do if you actually did something bad.
I hope you can soon find a peaceful home for yourself..
Idk what parents think they are doing by raising the youngest like this, if she's grow enough to alone to class then she can buy it herself?? The are raising a brat, you know what this told her??
That she can just get wathever she wants no matter how the other person feels or if they can. "Who cares if I made my sister miss her class and get verbally abused, I got my thing anyways and I did nothing for it!'
it indeed is draining, made me emotionally numb for most things
oh yes you're right, I wasn't thinking straight. I'll keep that in mind from now on
I thought you blocked me for the kdh spoiler
(thanks btw)
I am. Thank you for checking up on meTT
The problem is it's not usual for people to move out before getting married in where I'm from. So I'm 21 and still stuck here. I do have plans of moving abroad after college so maybe that'll be a kind of escape if that happens
thank you so much love
exactly. Plus a 16y/o isn't too young to manage her own stuffs. I honestly love my sister a lot, she's the one I love the most and I'm not exaggerating. And yk it really hurts way more if the person you adore the most does something like this to you. That's probably why I felt worse that I should have.
thank you for saying that love, really means a lot
I'm just gonna vent here for a moment since I have no one I can share my fucking life problems with because the ones I'm supposed to share my problems with ARE the problems of my life. You guys don't have to read it, I'm just letting it out to feel better
Earlier today my sister said she needs some school supplies because she has an exam and she'll need them tomorrow there. My parents had plans so they went out at noon and gave me money for her stuffs. They told me to go with her, I said I cant because I have an online class scheduled later. She had a class outside later in the afternoon and there are stores around there. So I told them that I'd give her the money and she could just bring them when she's coming back from her class. No one said anything then and they went out. Fine.
Later my sister was getting ready to go out for her class, she said we should go out to buy those things later in the evening after she comes back from her class, like she'd come back home and we'll go out to buy those stuffs from a store not too far from our place. I told her to take the money for her stuffs so she can buy them. She was like no you're supposed to go out with me yada yada yada. My dad initially told me to go with her before I said I won't go.
I was pissed at her cause dude you're literally going outside, you can just finish your class and buy them from the stores there, why do I need to go out for this?? So I said I'm not going. She called my parents and my dad called me and told me to go with her even when I said she's literally going where the stores are. But no, I need to go. I was so fucking pissed so didn't say anything more to her but okay. So she told me before that she wants to go buy those things after she comes back home right? That's why I thought that was it. She came back home, went into her room without saying anything so I was confused and loudly asked her when we're going. No answer. Okay. She then changed her clothes after a while, went into the living room, turned the TV on and started watching TV.
So at that point, what am I supposed to do? I asked her, she didnt say anything. I thought maybe the schedule changed or something and she doesn't need them today. And ofc she was acting like a brat by not answering when I asked her after coming back home. So I didnt talk to her either. I was doing my class (the online one). My parents come back home, my sister then sits down to study at that late. She then looks at me and goes "Where are the stuffs you bought?" I was like wtf excuse me? You never said anything about it later so how'd I know if you still needed them or not?? [A little background info: We do not have the happiest household. Especially my relationship with my mom and dad, emphasis on mom since she's the source of most of 98% of my traumas]
So yeah, she then tells my mom. My mom then starts yelling at me like a fucking psychotic human without giving me a chance to explain. I was just trying to explain what happened cause I don't see how it's completely my fault here when my sister is the irresponsible one. But ofc given the person she is, I'd never get a chance to explain. I still said it because I was also shouting but not angrily because I was trying to explain. But no it's my fault, they gave that money to me to buy those things, I'm irresponsible, called me hundred different names and told me to go out and buy those right then. It was late at night so she said if the stores are closed or something, I need to look for them until I find it or else I shouldn't just come home. Well I'm just stating all the things she said very amicably. Man I was so hurt lolol. I was just trying to explain but she didnt even let me talk. Because if I needed something tomorrow morning and yeah I think my sister is gonna go out and buy them for me. Won't I ask her if she got those things first things before lounging on the sofa after I get back?? She didn't ask anything, didnt even answer when I asked her if she wasnt gonna go, so ofc I thought she didn't need them urgently.
So yeah basically i just changed my pants, wore a mask because i was on the verge of tears and went out. I was literally crying on my way there lol and I dont even cry easily, first time crying outside my room lolol. I felt so hurt j can't even explain the situation. They didnt even ask me my side at least once. Okay I would still go and buy that for her but my mom could at least listen to what I had to say? But ofc who am I even expecting these from! People were staring at me because I was crying and my eyes were still visible even if i was wearing a mask. I just went, bought the things, came back home, threw those at the table and noticed my class was already over.
Then my dad calls me to ask what happened, pls I get so disgusted at them because it's not like you're gonna believe me or understand me anyway so why even bother asking. Still I went and he asked, I told him things that happened but I couldnt say anything clearly cause I was literally tearing up and my voice wouldn't come out, I was just trying not to cry. He then proceeds to tell me how I should've just went out alone if she didn't responded when I saw it was getting late. Yeah, maybe I should've done that but none of you even want to know what happened. He literally just asked me so he could tell me how I shouldn't have done this and that. So I just said yeah I told you it's all my fault and just left.
So that's what happened except it was a way bigger shitshow. Sorry for the massive rant, I just had to get this off and I can't think of anyone I can tell these to rn. I'm so done with everything. This isn't a once in a while occurrence. What a horrible of a person i must be for my own parents to hate me this much! Ive been goinh through so fucking much lately and these people know everything. Then how are these people even worse with me now. I really love them since they're my family but I don't like any of them and I don't know how that works. If I start trauma dumping about these people, it'll take me months so I guess kinda understandable.
Man I know I'm pathetic for this but literally the first thing that came to my mind when I was trying to explain it to my mom was Ruby. Maybe I love her character so much because I can relate to her to a much deeper level. There was a panel like that and it was the first thing that crossed my mind right that moment. I just sounded like a very lifeless person but yeah whatever. I've never been amazing anyway. So yeah the moral of this whole thing is I really dont like these people. Some people just should not become parents. I hate living with them. Can't wait for the day I escape this hellhole.
This may be my house but never once have I felt at home here.