The more I read it, the more "me" I see. I too, I've been called insensitive. I too, I got to heard that I haven't a once of consideration toward others people while I was the "popular and kind one".
Relationship are never equal. Everyone in this manga love each other, they each value each other with deep affection and more than the person value themselves. We are always more loved than what we know. This manga represents it just so well with every character !
Hiroshi was first the perfect one, now he is flawless in many point. He was first kind, see as considerate and now he protect himself, close. People told him to change, but he already lived his whole life like this ! He always acted like this and from his point of view, without any problem. It's difficult to self-reflect. You can't know if you a good or a bad person. Some people value you, maybe and probably more than what you actually value while some other despite you for your selfishness, when you don't even feel like you're selfish. What should we do when people have high expectations toward us ? Impostors symdrome ? Was it our fault of people get hurt because we aren't the great one I've been dreaming about ? What is "enough" to be considerate toward others ? And what isn't "enough" ? Why do we always have to act in relationships (friends or lovers, any relationship) ? I've been told that while people are chasing me for my affection, I give nothing back. I believe Hiroshi and Tomoko have some sort of similar thing where one of them think is doing more in the relationship, chasing a dream or a star while the other one don't realize how exhausting it is and take this situation as granted, normal between them.
I totally get Hiroshi even if many points are completely different. Maybe many people dislike him, I haven't seen a lot of people talking about him. But I really like this character. He was first the perfect one, the kind and beloved one and now he isn't perfect at all, he keeps making mistakes. He is angry, he hurts people he loves to protect himself. He is tired. He is so real.
The more I read it, the more "me" I see.
I too, I've been called insensitive. I too, I got to heard that I haven't a once of consideration toward others people while I was the "popular and kind one".
Relationship are never equal.
Everyone in this manga love each other, they each value each other with deep affection and more than the person value themselves.
We are always more loved than what we know.
This manga represents it just so well with every character !
Hiroshi was first the perfect one, now he is flawless in many point. He was first kind, see as considerate and now he protect himself, close. People told him to change, but he already lived his whole life like this ! He always acted like this and from his point of view, without any problem.
It's difficult to self-reflect.
You can't know if you a good or a bad person. Some people value you, maybe and probably more than what you actually value while some other despite you for your selfishness, when you don't even feel like you're selfish.
What should we do when people have high expectations toward us ? Impostors symdrome ? Was it our fault of people get hurt because we aren't the great one I've been dreaming about ? What is "enough" to be considerate toward others ? And what isn't "enough" ? Why do we always have to act in relationships (friends or lovers, any relationship) ?
I've been told that while people are chasing me for my affection, I give nothing back. I believe Hiroshi and Tomoko have some sort of similar thing where one of them think is doing more in the relationship, chasing a dream or a star while the other one don't realize how exhausting it is and take this situation as granted, normal between them.
I totally get Hiroshi even if many points are completely different. Maybe many people dislike him, I haven't seen a lot of people talking about him.
But I really like this character. He was first the perfect one, the kind and beloved one and now he isn't perfect at all, he keeps making mistakes.
He is angry, he hurts people he loves to protect himself. He is tired. He is so real.