Im in lgbtq I dont like then keeping him in the dark

I do not like that everyone is keeping him in the dark like that. He is a grown man and wouldn't it be way more relieving to find out that you're supported? Sure embarrassed at first but in the long run mentally it'd be so much better. It just feels so selfish to deprive him of that. I don't know the seme really rubs me the wrong way and it sorta feels like he is putting the Uke in a cage by blocking him from support and just overall being obsessive. "He wouldn't have anything to talk to you about anyways" Um, sir that's his good friend. Who is he suppose to talk to if not him? Don't get me wrong- I love my fair share of yanderes and similar dark stories. I just sort some reason find it kinda unsettling in this one since the Uke seems completely oblivious to the cage being formed around him; It feels like watching a golden retriever being hunted by a wolf. Answer phone immediately, text me back immediately, tell me where you are, no hanging out with men and women without me there like come on man someone has to say something. I feel like I'm watching my friend in a toxic relationship