nanjo may be kind but he also is a know it all, that’s what i think. he jumped to conclusions because he believed sunhwa was too pure to indulge in that kind of rough play so he just assumed that seoin was manipulating and abusing sunhwa.
it's just very strange to me like ia he's definitely a know it all (i think it's probably bc he's lived a life of privilege) but i don't get why he's like this now still...is it that he just has a very black and white view of the world? he has a savior complex where people are either victims or aggressors? OR he needs to convince himself that nanjo is a bad person to keep his distance or something..
but it's definitely a vicious cycle where even at the beginning, mokyeon proposed this deal bc he wanted to self-destructively "get back" at nanjo after nanjo was disdainful towards him. feel like its a cycle where mokeyon gets more reckless when his self-esteem is attacked and then ofc nanjo gets more wary of mokyeon...
but i really don't understand why he's insisting that mokyeon is an abuser...? like it's one thing to be confused about whether mokyeon is playing him (which i think is understandable) but it seems really unecessary to call him an abuser when you've seen all the signs that he's not w/ the twink? it's like the very beginning when he thought the worst of mokyeon as well. this judgey, presumptious thing is probably the biggest thing i dislike about nanjo (mokyeon is right about this) i could see it being his fatal flaw. (and obv mokyeon's is his erratic, self-destructive way of being bc of severe low self-esteem)
idk how mokyeon is supposed to think nanjo likes him at all if it seems like nanjo thinks he's scum and an abuser?...and i don't see nanjo taking the initiative either? ig right now they have physical attraction...but what a mess lol.