YOU GET IT
For me it doesn’t make sense knowing how the top is obsessed about him… even if you have doubts you need to consider the context I think
I think this is what our uke is feeling, our top doesn't do friends, doesn't get along with people, always always other people at arm's length and they are only obssesed with uke. Then all of a sudden you noticed them doing something out of character, getting coffee, meeting on the rooftop (which may I say that this is their thing meeting on the rooftop) so yeah uke is very valid to crash out. He can't see any of the context because he is blinded. So yeah.
Our top hasn't shared anything about his family at all. He knows the top is a loner. Doesn't make friends etc etc. That's the only conclusion that he can make.