legit I feel like that's 99% of bl manhwa
everyone x therapy is the true pairing
so sick of these "romances" where it's so patently unhealthy you can't even suspend disbelief bc it's like someone dating a fridge. it's just camp level stupid writing, at some point i stop caring
I love toxic relationship and I love messy people. If everyone could just magically figure things out right away then there wouldn't be a need for therapy to exist at all. People cope differently, and some people just have a harder time or have less chance to access the help they need. I can see why both Uigun and Dajun would have a hard time looking into getting help for very different reasons, but it's still valid imo.
I just personally don't enjoy the concept of using someone else as your turning point for your mental health issue, it feels devaluing the characters' pain and makes their struggles trivial. I would encourage it if it's more along the line of having company and someone who trusts you to hold your hands while you heal, I just don't like when authors make love into the magical healing potion.
I wish a very horrible and bad life on Uigun's parents, his mother especially. The brother can go dig himself a hole too.
At this point, what Uigun needs isn't relationship, give that man some therapy first and then once he feels more like a person and not just something he built up to self-destruct then relationships can move forwards.
It's not the first time but seriously, I don't even care if Uigun and Dajun get together again or not. They both have serious self-worth to work on and if they both can't even heal their inner world then there's no reason to force someone else to suffer together with you in the ruins that is your mind.