liked this but I hate how misogynistic they wrote Minato to be erm

Because of his mother and what she did to him. Plus, he's her clone. He despises that he wears her face.

that's not a reason to be misogynistic yk. it's like saying you hate or dislike every single German bc Hitler bombed ur country that makes no fkn sense. he's not a bad person that's not what I'm saying I just think it's super unreasonable.

i dont think its to THAT extent all the experiences hes had with women so far have been negative, so its not crazy for him to be more cautious and dismissive of them. he doesnt HATE women and all the begative interactions hes had with a woman during the series is justified (like with yuka because she sucks), and im sure that if there was a woman in his life that was a good person and supported him rather than making his life worse (like every other woman in his life has) then he wouldnt hate her

I can definitely agree with this! I just don't want people to think this is normal bc misogyny is already everywhere so if we normalize it in yaoi more than we already have, especially bc most of us are women ourselves, it doesn't really feel quite right