for fem guys in bls theres often a common strand of thought that people read bls to see mlm but sometimes the fem guys are so feminine its like the author wants to draw a straight couple- especially with nipple sucking or saying "ur bootyhole looks like a pussy". and i think for me its best when the author attempts to mention their gender identity? iykwim..
this isnt me trying to undermine fem leaning men at all, so v sorry if it comes off that way good sir
and with the childlike thing- drawing characters shorter, having baby faces, saying its all for the "height difference" the authors make them look like a child but expressly say, "they're 21 they had a traumatic childhood because they were bullied for being short" and in some cases, yes, it works, but in others its pure pédophilie masked with the authors interjection of their age. take the "i may be big" (idk what it is) which is on the homepage rn- its obvious masked paedophilia.
one of the problems i personally have with fem leaning guys in manhwas is the skinniness!! constantly pushing into boxes like the bottom has to be skinny, being able to see their ribs, saying "i cant grow muscle!", always eating but never gaining weight but not exercising.., the list goes on
(but thats just my peeve because anorexia is a growing concern with the modern age)
yea i don’t really like the comparison of the fem guys hole being a pussy feels demeaning. and yea i don’t them to be drawn basically like a girl. like for example i think in “k’s secret” near the end of the series they drew they guy really pretty but still a man. it’s a hard balance but not impossible. also in “excuse me dentist, it’s touching me” the mic is pretty and cross dresses but i feel like the way their drawn is yea they’re pretty but i feel like more is androgynous. i personally like height differences but yea that “i may be big” webcomic they r drawn wayyy to childlike. authors need to actually draw short men in more realistic ways and i agree with the skinniness its way too much like its scary skinny. i need to see short fem bottoms with body tea. i feel like since it seems like a lot of BL manhwas are made by women, is that they either consciously or unconsciously make the uke “woman like” if that makes sense. and yea eating disorders are def on the rise again which is scary!
yesyes u get me bro
its probably cus of the whole manhwa needs to have sex in it so that always presents the "whos top and bottom" and people just see whoevers feminine as the one taking it
i think i’m just a hater at heart but like i hate seeing BLs with alpha x alpha, enigma x alpha, sometimes beta x alpha, and manly man x manly man who’s taller. my hate comes from i guess you could say from if i imagined myself in that type of fictional universe. like alpha x alpha and enigma x alpha feel to me like seeing a 6ft+ big dick strict bottom like that’s the type of greed the bible talks about (half joking. but i think more people should be verse but ofc u can’t force that). for beta x alpha i just don’t like it when the bottom is alpha, same reasoning as alpha x alpha but also they should be verse! there’s not that many verse manhwas ive seen but maybe im just not looking at the right ones. and for manly man x many man who’s taller, it just boils down to ive seen too much of that shit and i see in the comments of webcomics with more fem bottoms saying how much they hate the fem bottom like jfc let people be. i feel like there’s so much femphobia (this is coming from a fem leaning gay man), every fucking bitch seems to be masc4masc, irl and the BL readers. this femphobia with BL readers feels the same as (at least to me) the situation of a guy bringing home his fem leaning bf and his parents saying i thought you were bringing a man, so they basically dismiss the bfs manliness (im probably stretching but this is how i feel). i need to see more fem leaning mc’s that also have long hair and are more dominant! end of rant, this is just me complaining but im launching it into the void so i can at least get it off my chest. also for people who say “the mc/ml looks like a child”, i can see what you mean but sometimes i just dont see it, like they just have a cute face? but id like to hear some reasoning from people bc im curious how people say that so pls respond if thats you! genuinely curious!