Valid crashout topic honestly (I wud crash tf out if it was me)
Right. Thanks for saying this. I was also thinking this. Even tho you are well aware of his past and you can only prepare yourself with that information. But it will undoubtedly will be affecting the whole relationship till the end of time. And he can't do anything to change that.
Hmm I agree with you that it’d be exhausting emotionally especially but isn’t that kinda puritan in view? Genuine question here but unless the person is actively also seeing that person while dating another what’s the issue?
Especially when he’s been straightforward from the beginning that he’s exclusive with the FL. Whenever they’d be together as well, he’d solely focus on her and the time they spent together.
Not really puritan lol, that’s when u glamorize purity. I don’t care if you had sex in the past, it’s more about having sex casually with everyone not just people youre in a relationship with. Of course, feel free to do whatever you want, but everything has consequences.
And I know that he’s been direct and he doesn’t really hide who he is or his past, but that doesn’t mean it’s not difficult to deal with even though you do know that information beforehand. Especially if your past still affects your present relationships, coming from someone who used to date a retired hoe
I know he’s been a whore and I was fine w it but getting constant reminders just give me the ick so bad… being with a retired hoe is honestly so emotionally draining and exhausting just having to deal with their past consequences and just worry if you know they’re cheating or they have a secret baby mama out there