maybe it's because I'm a freak too but I don't mind if my partner suddenly asks if he wants to try bdsm as long as we start small and he doesn't immediately force me to do the hard parts (but there's a risk of me developing a kink for it too lmao)
maybe it's because I'm a freak too but I don't mind if my partner suddenly asks if he wants to try bdsm as long as we start small and he doesn't immediately force me to do the hard parts (but there's a risk of me developing a kink for it too lmao)