My partner was essentially like him. I didn't give him the same attention that other girls are giving him. I was too curt and didn't really saw him as anything else. He saw it as a challenge and wanted to talk me up, like how ml wriggled his way into her. And now, he won't literally let me do anything at home because he wants to take care of me.
Damn, that sounds like a novel I'd read. Good for you girl! I wish I had an encounter like that but I don't really go out lmao
Men used to like challenges irl. Not so sure about that in today’s youth love affairs anymore, I’m seeing more and more girls that are just interested if their partner have cars and money.
I am part of this youth and what you're seeing are the minority and that they are young. It's fine if girls want to have a partner with those resources especially in this economy. Love alone doesn't feed you. Albeit, me and my fiancé are middle class, both are working in professional fields, we still struggle with expenses because once again, having money is very very vital. People with money and people who wants to be taken care of my people with money can still be considered as love. You sound like you actually have not faced the dires of the real world.
Mangago usesrs sure like to take things personally and jumping to asumptions.
“ What I’m seeing is the minority” ok, if you counted them I believe you. There are lots of stories similar out there, luckly is the minority otherwise it would be a common thing to do.
“Love alone doesn’t feed you” yes, that’s why both parties need to have a job and not just one person “supporting”another in every single request they make because the other will get used to that treatment and they can become more demanding.
Yes unfortunately the economy sucks right now and we’re going through a crysis, but hard times and situations always have been present for some. Not eveyone has been born with a golden spoon, but those who lived a decent life are acting selfish and childish due to poor parenting.
I think I didn’t make my self clear earlier, I’ll explain it better. I have no problem if people with no money want those with money as long as there’s mutual respect and sincerity between them. But I found it wrong if one of the parties just uses the other one for personal needs and dump them like garbage as they please afterwards.
The way you construct your comment is a bit confusing even now. Your first comment was already an implication and you still think that every people with fucked up parents but with money are somehow manipulative, gold diggers. Like that's a very specific problem. It's common sense that people who use people to benefit something only for their own benefit are terrible people. It's not an assumption by the way, it's just the way you construct your paragraph is terrible and can be easily misunderstood. If you're gonna say English isn't your first language, it isn't mine either.
I’m so used with people making assumptions based on the thoughts that I felt like you were doing the same. Yes English is not my first language, but I don’t think that I’m that bad at it either otherwise I wouldn’t write here to begin with.
I guess that my mistake is for beeing too generic.
I’m not accusing that everyone is a gold digger, I’m just highlighting that the number of people having this behavior is slowly increasing especially in big cities. I find that many people are having a hard time to find someone that is genuine and the focus is more on material things than simple ones.
It's funny to read the comments.
Many are so horny for toxic redflags, but a man like him is the worst? Are yall ok? (￣∇￣")
He is totally normal. Just bc he wasn't crazy about her from the very start doesn't mean he's a total asshole.
He just acted as a man with too much ego.
He set up a trap for her to satisfy his pride and trapped himself in it.
Idk, my ex boyfried thought I was the strangest shit out there the first couple times, but his love was so real. So yeah, ML was just to prideful.