fr double standards lmaooo
I completely agree...
Here, everyone sides with the bottom no matter what he does — people always find excuses for him, which I find strange....
Do they assume the bottom is the only one who has emotions? The only one who gets hurt?
Why is it considered hot or normal when the bottom does something, but awful and disgusting when the top does the same thing? It just doesn’t make any sense...
That’s why whenever I start reading manhwas, I usually side with the top — unless he’s a real bastred ....
And the funny thing ome people say the bottom here needs a 'mature man' and not a 'child......
Really? Honestly, I find the top way more attractive — he has a bright, mature personality, and he knows how to communicate when there’s a misunderstanding. ....
Just look at how he treats the kids and how much he cares about the person he loves. He even makes sure to apologize when he makes a mistake.
Compared to that, the bottom’s behavior doesn’t show any maturity at all — it actually makes you question who's the younger one here...
And like you said — it’s good they ended up together But let’s at least be fair
Taeyang stronger than me fr. I get jiwon struggles and has both anxiety and trauma, but hurting taeyang multiple times, leaving him without saying anything until after he’s gone, saying hurtful words just to get taeyang to give up, is so extra. Trauma shouldn’t be an excuse to hurt others as well. It also doesn’t help that he chooses to have sex with mc plenty of times but pushes him away right after, giving him mixed signals. Trauma is an explanation for the way he is, but a lot of yall can’t accept that jiwon has done wrong and hate hearing his flaws.
Let be honest here, there are MLs/Tops who have done the whole “pushing MC” away before, and in every story people hate on said ML. Always wanting the mc to move on and find some other person who won’t give up. Not caring to understand the ML’s trauma and worries. I tend to notice that as long as it’s the bottom who’s running away, people are extremely lenient in comparison. If it were a top, people would be bashing tf out of him lol. If jiwon was the top, people would definitely call him a fuckboy for sleeping around, hating on him for impregnating a woman and having a child, hating him for being hot and cold by sleeping with mc but being cold after multiple times.
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Anyways at the end of the day, I’m glad the couple are back together.