Children from extremely abusive homes unless the get therapy or proper help, can turn out to be problematic adults. They might treat people how they were treated as they don't really know anything else. From what I can see he always got rough love and abuse from other people. So makes sense he doesn't know how to treat dan right. He didn't like dan but saw himself in Dan and that's why he decided to help. Almost exactly how his trainer helped him. Does it excuse him being a shitty adult? Definitely not. No matter how traumatic your childhood you have no right to be abusive. So right what both him and Dan need is therapy . Otherwise I don't see them ever having a proper healthy relationship. Problems don't just go away because you're in love
Children from extremely abusive homes unless the get therapy or proper help, can turn out to be problematic adults. They might treat people how they were treated as they don't really know anything else. From what I can see he always got rough love and abuse from other people. So makes sense he doesn't know how to treat dan right. He didn't like dan but saw himself in Dan and that's why he decided to help. Almost exactly how his trainer helped him. Does it excuse him being a shitty adult? Definitely not. No matter how traumatic your childhood you have no right to be abusive. So right what both him and Dan need is therapy . Otherwise I don't see them ever having a proper healthy relationship. Problems don't just go away because you're in love