Very well said, I completely agree. and to think people are disliking your comment. what's there to disagree about!
i dunno, but thanks for agreeing!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Question, did u have friends growing up? Or like ppl that were there for you in any shape? Or anything in ur life that took away from the abuse? Did u have to work your way out of poverty and start everything from scratch? If your situation is identical to Jks I rest his case.
i was bullied as a kid, didn’t really have friends, and on top of that i grew up in extreme poverty! so yes, i infact did claw my way to have a decent life. because of my traumas i was actually diagnosed with BPD. my parents denied me help when i was a minor and constantly undermined my issues and my mental health was horrible but even then, when i hated everything, i never turned to hurting others. i’m sitting in a house, i have a laptop and a phone and a full belly and right now i am grateful for what i have and would never even think about hurting someone else for my own gain. i relate to jaekyung a backstory except for the fact i had NO escape, i didn’t have family to help me escape, i didn’t have hobbies that would let me leave the house, i had nothing.
being abused doesn’t mean you can abuse others mentally or physically. i was abused as a child into young adultery and i have never once thought about harming or raping someone to get what i want. you are only excusing his behavior because he’s attractive and it’s honestly sad. joo jaekyung is a rapist and it doesn’t matter how sad his backstory is, he is STILL a rapist. thank you for coming to my ted talk