Yea idk this ain’t sad enough for me to excuse his shitty behavior…if anything he met ...

ok ima state this before i say what ima say. i feel horrible for child jaekyung but believe adult him is still a pos and needs therapy

now tell me you have no idea how familial abuse works without telling me you have no idea how it works. because coming from someone who had a abusive narcassist father it took YEARS to realise the things ive learned from him arnt ok because your brain gets so extremely contioned. matter fact being that young makes it harder because you learned that at such a young age that your brain is accustomed to it. and this is with therapy too. judging by jaekyung now i doubt he had any sort of mental help whatsoever so there was nobody to teach him whats right and whats wrong and that behavior followed him into adulthood. is that a excuse? absolutely not. but its insane that you think a 6year old with no idea with whats ok and whats not ok knows how to 'unlearn' awful behavior especially without any professional help

Firstly, let me respectfully say I can understand where you are coming from…but to assume someone else has never experienced traumatic things in life is kinda going a bit far. I’ve endured an abusive father just like JY, one that also SA’d me at a young age. I lived with said father and his family until I was 8yrs old, enduring multiple assaults and well as being starved, went to live with my trauma ridden mother who also physically abused me when she felt depressed. So before you assume things about others maybe take a step back and realize everyone process things differently. I’m not in JY shoes but despite what he went through and with all the fame and money he acquired he still made the choice to stay a broken person which in turn broke someone else (someone who was actually trying to hold on to life). I’m not saying what he went through isn’t bad, nowhere in my original post did it say what he went through wasnt horrible. I simply said despite his past he had so many opportunities to work on being a better person! So if him being abused and starved at a young age is why he’s like the way he is, it just isn’t enough to validate/excuse his behavior!

Horrible people like to blame trauma for them being horrible people, but there are many people around the world and since we are talking fictional here…even other works I’ve read who’ve experienced far worse than JY and still grow up to be decent human beings. And that’s without therapy! As I said, I loved JY but I’m not gonna excuse his shitty behavior simply because of this one chapter…I literally said the author had to give me more reason to believe he deserves understanding before I can say yea I get it now. I wasn’t gonna respond if I’m being honest, but I truly dislike when others who share a different viewpoint make things personal when in reality we are strangers and we know nothing about each other. You could have shared you’re views without attacking the person behind the point.