Exactly this. He was abandoned ignored and abused and so he does that to someone else??
You need to look into actual case studies of this phenomenon, if you don't understand, then. Because they do exist. It's easy to say those things when you haven't personally experienced it. No, I'm not saying that excuses their actions. But there is an actual link between the two.
You should probably just shut your dumb mouth I was abused to hell and back as a kid. I didn't become an abuser. tHeRe'S a LiNk. No shit. It doesn't change someone asking how that can happen, because I wonder too. The answer is you become a POS like your abuser who was probably also abused. Or you don't.
Well no it doesn’t excuse these actions, no matter what. I don’t give a fuck what case studies say. If you want to be a good person, you will.
oh now i really don’t feel bad for him. i don’t understand how children that were abused turn into abusers. would you not want to be better to the people in your life after what you went through? i wouldn’t ever want to turn out like my abuser.