No, this is a psychological thing. Children raised up in abusive households 87% of the time turn abusive themselves because of the trauma and other stuff
Well that might be true but now what, it's similarly near impossible to ever forgive your abuser too
.... How is the author even gonna play this one bro
I’m an abused child myself, and I don’t go around treating people like garbage and then using my past as an excuse. Yes, trauma messes people up ,but it doesn’t excuse harmful behavior. A lot of us who went through abuse work hard specifically so we don’t become like the people who hurt us. Having trauma doesn’t mean you get a free pass to be cruel.
They realize they just justify the abuse and don't have the self control to stop and better themselves
The writer wants a "good" ending and wants to use bad upbringing
I'm not justifying him, and I didn't say all abuse victims have that mentality
He's just trash that's all. It's not an excuse to treat people like shit
well i think his ass wasn’t beaten enough cause how does jaekyung have a childhood like that and it doesn’t even cross his mind ONCE that he’s acting like his abuser? atp idk if it’s just poor writing or if jaekyung is just an asshole