Help meeee

My own favorite crayon July 26, 2025 1:16 pm

Am I being demanding/clingy/needy if I want my boyfriend to update me about his day?

This is a prevailing concern of mine. I called him out twice for this. He could send a reply and message to group chats but not to me. I could literally read his chats in the GC's but waiting for his reply to my DM.

I talked to him and said that I am not asking him to message me all the time but a little update like "I am kinda busy, I might not message you later" would be nice or like "I will go to --- later" would reassure me.

But he never did. But I never talked about it anymore and just understand him that maybe that is just the way he is.

We were chatted yesterday morning for about 10 mins and then he went off for the whole day and just message me again around 9pm and off again, he did not even saw my reply to him.

I was mad? Sad? I don't know

Chats, replies, updates are bare minimum

So I am planning on breaking up with him

Am I overreacting?

Responses
    Nananananananananana July 26, 2025 1:41 pm

    rule no. 1 don't get an unsolicited advice from stranger but girl how about rather than pushing, try pulling out? Don't text him until he will. If he loves you he would miss you and contact you, if not, then something is wrong.

    CapitanosWife July 26, 2025 1:51 pm

    Yeah keep distance... And if he's busy and have a solid reason for not answering you it's fine but if it's not and it's a recent change you should talk it out... And don't worry.. Everything will be fine

    gumdrops July 26, 2025 2:02 pm

    i dunno but if u have to ask the mangago community advice for ur relationship... i think its pretty bad