There are people defending JJK's actions saying that since he had been abused in his childhood he doesn't know better. First of all, JJK is a grown up now. He is 27 years old not a baby. He should have known better. You are telling me that in all those years he couldn't fix up his behaviour. Ok cool. Let's just go ahead and give him the benefit of doubt..
If JJK is truly struggling with all those issues then he should be going into therapy. Consult a psychiatrist or a therapist. Because at this point he is unfit of being in a healthy romantic relationship with Dan. I hate how all the time in these stories the seme who obv has some issues instead of going to therapy and rectifying his issues or even acknowledging them, instead doubles down on the uke. The authors make "love heals everything" trope really unpalatable with the way how the uke is continuously abused, suffers a lot, does the emotional labour from both sides for a problematic seme. Everything is from the uke's side and nothing is from the seme's side.
There are people defending JJK's actions saying that since he had been abused in his childhood he doesn't know better. First of all, JJK is a grown up now. He is 27 years old not a baby. He should have known better. You are telling me that in all those years he couldn't fix up his behaviour. Ok cool. Let's just go ahead and give him the benefit of doubt..
If JJK is truly struggling with all those issues then he should be going into therapy. Consult a psychiatrist or a therapist. Because at this point he is unfit of being in a healthy romantic relationship with Dan. I hate how all the time in these stories the seme who obv has some issues instead of going to therapy and rectifying his issues or even acknowledging them, instead doubles down on the uke. The authors make "love heals everything" trope really unpalatable with the way how the uke is continuously abused, suffers a lot, does the emotional labour from both sides for a problematic seme. Everything is from the uke's side and nothing is from the seme's side.