i get what u are saying but i think i might have to share my perspective too, not to convince you or anything but to make u understand more, I guess? so you mentioned that the bottom keep saying no but the top wouldn't stop. based on what I have learned, and idk maybe from experience, most of the bottom don't say "stop" because they dislike it, i don't really know how to explain it but it's not bcs they didn't consent, more like they're saying it out of pleasure. (like stop, let me catch my breath, or stop it's so good, smth like that) and hey most of top's words though it sounds demanding, it was kind of dirty talk, lots of couple do that, and actually what he's saying is kind of mild (i hope you don't encounter a seme who talks dirty to uke like he's his slut, I don't want u to be traumatized) if it brothers you, it's okay, ^^ but i just wanna explain things maybe to open up your mind a little bit in this whole new world? and honestly, a fiction is a fiction if u aren't comfortable doing like this irl, don't endure it okay? we overlook this kind of action only in fiction. ^^
After rereading I feel kind of bad. I think it was way more forced than I thought when I read it the first time. Like when the MC said he want to slow down and than they did a lot and nothing if this was slow. I mean, to take it slow doesn't mean anything except for sex is okay. And he says very often he wants to stop during sex scenes.
And also when jongchan thought he would train him and stuff like that. I also really dislike when they say "you made me horny so do something about it" I get that it depends on the person if that's okay to say but all together makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.
Am I'm the only one who thinks so? Am I'm too sensitive?
I don't think the relationship is bad or abusive or something like that, it's just not only green flags for me. Maybe some yellow.