Is there a bl where the uke looks manly and composed but not in bed or something like this...

Smyrna & capri by bwat

Seen it already

try one of these maybe?
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/go_out_with_me_too/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/misunderstanding/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/gwanggong_industrial_complex_good_hunter_bad_prey/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/reasons_for_disqualification/

Aesthetics of unpleasantness -- brett