
You shouldnt jump to conlusions and try to shame people/judge peope you dont know alot about. The reputation part is true, however in mist cases this only happens where the sadist dosent care about consent. Alot of masochist cannot back out once the play has started because the sadist cannot understand if no actually means no because resistance is often a part of the play so the sadist can truly feel like a sadist. This is why codewords exist. To be more clear like marshmellow or pinapple. Its extremely important to educate in things likw this and learn how to seperate rape and pleplay in any bdsm related things because not everything is rape even if it seems like it.
This is why I hate any BDSM related unless the bottom is a Sadistic.