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Completely agree you with. People think it’s easy for Ian to drop TJ overnight when they’ve been around each other for what, 19 years or something like that? It’s not easy when you develop a codependency like they’ve done.
This. Like yeah I don’t really like it but there’s obviously a reason he is so attached to TJ.
You can criticize Ian but how you do it is what important. Slutshaming him is not the way. I admit I'm tired of Ian indecisiveness but that doesn't mean I don't understand why he's like that. Ian still has this codependency with tj, so even though he enjoys himself with Jo, Ian still has that horrible habit of letting tj do what he wants despite Ian himself not necessarily wanting it. We saw this behavior in chapter 26 a bit and in that chapter tj tell himself "you been mine" which actually parallels to tj saying the hat is his when Ian ask for it back.