
Ian wanted to let go of the past with TJ because they were running in circles but never did that man say it was to be with Jo. He is not in an exclusive relationship with Jo. TJ and Ian has been together for 19 year that too long. They're not gonna let go of their past together that easily and the intimacy that come with it.

I don’t like any of the ML because I really don’t need to but I agree with you that there’s explanation as to why Ian is the way he is with TJ.
That’s his first love perhaps, his first family, of course he would have an attachment with TJ. Just because he fucked with Jo doesn’t mean they’re official or that it has to continue being him at the moment.
It doesn’t take a fuck with Jo for Ian to decide. It’ll be long burn.
I don’t get the ML stans hating on Ian as if he’s with any of them.
idk i just really hate tj i genuinely don’t care about him….plus i don’t see the need for ian to jump back and forth between him and joe