wow you seem like a great friend. why do you still hang out with those people if you find them so annoying? my personal yap addition to your yap is how people have the audacity to say all of this and still think "i just want to be normal friends and have normal conversations". you're the one n control of your environment and if you're still friends with those so called annoying people you call friends then you're your own problem. they cant help themselves, you can't help them, and clearly, you're not helping yourself either staying in this superficial friendship. yap addition concluded.
i agree. i feel bad for insecure ppl bc ik they have a lot of issues they need to resolve themselves. had a friend i used to talk to a lot, he always put himself down. (nothing bad happened between us, just grew distant bc of life)
i just really wish they would put the energy of pitying themselves to some kind of change. it must tiring, always doing the same thing and complaining that nothing better is happening.
i used to be like this too in my younger years, but there's just a point in life where you need to take responsibility of the things you CAN control. (And stop putting all the pressure/responsibility to others)
tldr, i feel bad for insecure people. but they also need to put their big pants on and try living at some point. or dont ig! not my problem :P
Topic: Insecure people
Now I know the topic is crazy, but y'all have to hear out. Especially because usually I make these rants late at night but this shit actually just fried me so bad, I HAVE to speak on it.
Being friends or just trying to comfort an insecure person, is fucking hell. Especially when they really don't want the help, or fuck it, they don't know what they want in general but they won't shut up about it.
For example: Calling themselves ugly in front of you and when you tell them they aren't (regardless if they are or not), they start talking about how negative positivity is ruining the world.
Like bitch what? Would you rather me Agree and tell you you're the ugliest thing I've seen all day? Because I promise you I'm tempted. And then they swear on everyone's soul that their being misunderstood. Like no girl, you actually just don't want my comfort you just want to yap my ear off about your insecurities and you want me to just listen even though it's hard to listen to.
Like, I'm sorry I don't want to hear every bad thing you think about yourself? I'm just trying to have a normal conversation with you, y'know, like normal friends do? I'm not your fucking therapist or anything. And it's even worse when they just say it out of nowhere, like at LEAST give me a warning.
So if you're one of these please understand you're MAD annoying to talk to, like actually. Even if the people around you say otherwise. Trying being considerate and shutting your mouth!
Yap session: Concluded.