Personally, i think both Ian and TJ are disgusting, but Ian is the one hurting Jo, not TJ. So that makes Ian the one that annoys me.
But just as you said, the ones rooting for TJ really have no say to trash on Ian. TJ is a scumbag but somehow the TJ fans forgot all the shits he has done and pity him even though his current situation is the result of choices he made knowing what would be the outcome
I love Ian more than the two MLs. I do feel bad for Jo because ig the history that TJ and Ian have together can make it feel like Jo purpose is just giving Ian the life he wants rather than him actually loving Jo and wanting to be with him but personally i feel like Ian do love Jo but the 19 year together with TJ is really something he can easily let go off mix with the fact they keep not communicating together so it just very frustrating to see. And the fact that Jo is doing this for a man he saw once on the balcony lmaoo. So i do feel bad for him but I still do see potential in them. He isn't stupid. He knows the context of Ian and TJ relationship and he isn't really backing down from it and I like that he didn't. TJ got 19 years with Ian while Jo didn't get that but I do think if they are both end game then Jo and Ian would love each other just as much and if he isn't then I hope he'll get someone that loves him.
They always baby the tops and blame the MC for the tops actions, they blame MC for the reaction he's forced into but not the ones that make him react that way. It's obvious most don't care about Ian and only see him as a trophy to their faves happiness rather than Ian own happiness.
One thing that has disappointed me in my own team is how they act like Jo didn't make the choice to stay, that he didn't know the few things that could come ahead with it (he did, just not how extensive) and also believe Ian doesn’t deserve better.
Literally how is he hurting Jo. Jo is being self destructive by pursuing Ian when Ian has made it clear what he is. He gave Jo the option to leave and he came back. That’s his fault.
The more I read the comments the more I remember why I usually avoid reading the love triangle manhwa comment section. The way people be out here blaming everything on the mc but god forbid they blame the tops. Always babying them. I would understand it a little from the Jo Stan even tho I hate the fact Ian is being slut shame by them. but the other people who try to give out unbiased opinion only to give out biased opinion and dog shit on Ian??
Jo is the only one that ig people can say deserve better here.
When it was Jo being with Ian. Y'all out here parading about how Ian is a slut and so on and the thing that never sit right with me is how there are people who would say TJ deserve better?It seems the moment TJ come on screen everyone just get dicknotize by him. Like he is too good for Ian or something when he is not. He doesn't even deserve Ian. He is the same person who cause him to have an accident that could've gotten him kill. Slept with other women despite having feeling for Ian and yet the only manwhore here is Ian?
What is it really? If you ask me the most attractive person in here is Ian and yet I rarely see people actually talking about him. Is it because he is the one getting dick down and taking on the women role that you uphold such a higher standard for him than TJ or Jo?