This ain't a opinion just a question

river August 10, 2025 6:40 pm

just want to know how and what different people think while reading.

Read a comment in a story where the user basically said the Mc should be grateful cause they are so lucky (Context: Mc was getting graped by the ml) there were other similar comments.

Would the public opinion still be same if ml was not conventionally pretty or handsome?

Responses
    namachi August 10, 2025 6:45 pm

    thats such a crazy thing to say even for a fictional char & def not, if ml wasnt conventionally attractive they mightve just attacked the author lmfaoo

    Kang August 10, 2025 6:47 pm

    Ofc not. I happened to see the cmts in a straight corn that MC (girl) is being graped by ugly bastard and they wish it is handsome men so that they can at least enjoy. And I bet the cmts are all women since both contents are eaten mostly by women (or girls since I felt like this site has too much under 18 girls) I am starting to agree the certain statement that men often say about women (but all but many are applied-able).

    gojo's cock sleeve August 10, 2025 6:48 pm

    im guessing u mean codename anastasia, & im pretty sure more than half of the people wont be finding it hot if it was some ugly old unc instead of zhenya (or whoever ure talking about). but also, there ARE freaks who love rape regardless of the rapist being hot or not, but most of them here base it on the rapists physical appearance yeah

    Euphoria August 10, 2025 6:53 pm

    I would easily argue that MOST people are not going to call him “lucky” for being SA by someone just because the perpetrator is attractive.

    That being said, no, not nearly as many people would defend it, excuse it, or glorify it if the perpetrator wasn’t attractive.

    TAEJUS_SLUT August 10, 2025 6:54 pm

    Yh I've read like 6 or 7 comments like that.

    Doll August 10, 2025 6:55 pm

    Of course not, pretty privilege is a thing. If he was some ugly old man everyone would be crashing out in the comments. Rape is wrong and shouldn't be excused even if it was in fiction. But I don't think most ppl here understand that bc the top BLs here are literally filled with romanticized rape and abuse....

    TAEJUS_SLUT August 10, 2025 6:57 pm

    Im sorry.

    heartsfl August 10, 2025 7:04 pm
    Yh I've read like 6 or 7 comments like that. TAEJUS_SLUT

    I find it kind of funny ur in here in this thread abt pretty privilege rapists who get away with it and your name is taejus slut and ur pfp is the said rapists we talking about.. this cmt section not for u

    yoku August 10, 2025 7:06 pm

    I chalk it up to people being insane on the internet given that it's anonymous

    TAEJUS_SLUT August 10, 2025 7:07 pm
    I find it kind of funny ur in here in this thread abt pretty privilege rapists who get away with it and your name is taejus slut and ur pfp is the said rapists we talking about.. this cmt section not for u heartsfl

    Idgaf(≧∀≦)

    Gojopubichair August 10, 2025 7:12 pm

    If you're talking about that one comment from CA then that specific user will probably enjoy it regardless... Seen some of their comments on here and yeah... Already see some hoe blaming the victim instead of the assaulter in there. If the top was fat and ugly they're be crying and shouting how the uke deserve better.

    heartsfl August 10, 2025 7:12 pm
    Idgaf(≧∀≦) TAEJUS_SLUT

    lol so why did u apologize yk u wrong.. if taeju was ugly and chopped asf you would hate the fool lol tell me I’m wrong

    heartsfl August 10, 2025 7:13 pm
    If you're talking about that one comment from CA then that specific user will probably enjoy it regardless... Seen some of their comments on here and yeah... Already see some hoe blaming the victim instead of t... Gojopubichair

    This gets me every time like why in the world do yall support rape and abuse in fiction but you’ll say u don’t support it irl… be so fr

    Jaxx August 10, 2025 7:13 pm

    Pretty privileged also the readers ( mostly under age females ) I find are the one defending those sht.

    So it also comes down to what popular and trendy , age , and if the ml is attractive.

    TAEJUS_SLUT August 10, 2025 7:15 pm
    I find it kind of funny ur in here in this thread abt pretty privilege rapists who get away with it and your name is taejus slut and ur pfp is the said rapists we talking about.. this cmt section not for u heartsfl

    Ok I really was just trolling, in response to your question I would say for a lot of people, the public opinion would absolutely be different if the male love interest wasn't conventionally attractive. The comments you saw, where people said the victim should be "grateful," are a perfect example of this. When a perpetrator is handsome or charming, some audience members, especially in fandom spaces, are more likely to romanticize the character and their actions. They might excuse or even justify the sexual assault as a sign of passionate, obsessive love, or a "dark" but ultimately redeemable trait.
    If the same character committed the same act but was portrayed as ugly, unkempt, or otherwise unappealing, it's highly unlikely the public opinion would be the same. The audience would be more likely to see the act for what it is: a violent crime. This same "pretty privilege" definitely creates a dangerous blind spot where people overlook the harm and focus on the perpetrator's attractiveness, which is a harmful extension of real-world "rape culture." And for the comment with my username being "Taejus slut"; I definitely did not support his actions in the earlier chapters, I just like his character and design; that's pretty much it

    river August 10, 2025 7:17 pm
    If you're talking about that one comment from CA then that specific user will probably enjoy it regardless... Seen some of their comments on here and yeah... Already see some hoe blaming the victim instead of t... Gojopubichair

    Yeah the lucky comment was in CA but I've just seen too many "wish that was me" comments when the chapter in question is literally one character forcing themselves on another

    river August 10, 2025 7:17 pm
    Pretty privileged also the readers ( mostly under age females ) I find are the one defending those sht.So it also comes down to what popular and trendy , age , and if the ml is attractive. Jaxx

    Ig the underage thing makes sense. I just feel like the more they see these comments the more they normalize it? Or think its normal?

    Jaxx August 10, 2025 7:20 pm
    Ig the underage thing makes sense. I just feel like the more they see these comments the more they normalize it? Or think its normal? river

    It's probably because it's so normalize in bl . ( We see a lot of it being " trendy" in fiction)

    I use to also see it as normal when I was much younger as a new bl reader.

    Ccc August 10, 2025 7:34 pm
    Yeah the lucky comment was in CA but I've just seen too many "wish that was me" comments when the chapter in question is literally one character forcing themselves on another river

    If you check their other comments on here. You'll see that they have a thing for rape.

    Cat August 10, 2025 7:55 pm

    Def not lmao ppl would crucify the ml.