
So let me explain this to you from my perspective maybe the people don't realize it because they're all men but people often associated the bottom role as in a women role. Hence why there are many people who has this internalized misogyny. Having double standard towards the uke. When Jo was with Ian. There was people calling him a slut and more saying he deserves better eventho TJ is the reason for most of Ian pain. Now to Jo stans the way I see it they have been screaming and shouting that Jo and Ian should be together like they care about Ian mental health but immediately jumping on his ass babying Jo like he is some stupid guy who doesn't know TJ and Ian relationship even tho there were multiple chapter of Ian giving him the option to leave Ian and yet he still come back but somehow all the fault is on Ian? And when I see some bitches who has wrote "oh taekjoo is lucky" in a chapter of taekjoo getting rape. And having this pattern of supporting and excusing top and also babying them then to me that misogyny. They consciously prefer the tops more than the bottom because that aling with what they think a "men" should be
Here comes all the misogyny. Ian get behind me. No one fucking deserve you. They're only here for the gangsta and the white boys.