
No, I get you. I don’t care what tragic backstory or “experiments” the ML went through, none of that excuses the physical and mental abuse he inflicted on the MC. People like him perpetuate the cycle where the abused becomes the abuser, and the worst part is he refuses to even acknowledge it. Sure, you can pity him for what happened to him, but don’t you dare forget the pain, trauma, and scars he left on others. Abusers don’t get free passes just because they’ve suffered especially when they choose to repeat the harm instead of breaking the cycle.

There is a difference between red flag and just psycho rape/ mind break stories. This here belongs more with Killing Stalking instead of BL. Also red flags are series like Roses and Champagne, Jinx, Passion etc. I only continue this one, because there is still a chance that the ML could die and I wouldn't want to miss that

Im gonna say this once but I don’t wanna to be hearing that from someone who’s unemployed, throws around slur, and defends an abuser just because he had a sad past, fully knowing he chose to repeat the harm instead of breaking the cycle.
Yes the ML was experimented on by his father and others, but that doesn’t erase the pain he caused. He abused his power, his position, his pheromones, and even his own child just to keep the MC tied to him. He knew from the very start that the MC liked him, yet he toyed with him and once he got his fun, he ended it.
And let’s be clear it’s the ML fault they both left. If he had treated them better and been honest from the beginning saying something like, “I’ve never experienced these feelings before, but after you left, I realized it was love. I want to protect you and our son. I want to cherish you both.” none of this would have happened.
The reason they left wasn’t just because of his father’s interference. Even without that, the MC already knew he had to break the bond from the very beginning. His father may have accelerated it, but the cracks were always there because of the ML’s own actions.
So no this doesn't help. What it does show me is that there are still people like you who defend him purely because he was experimented on, as if that magically erases every choice he made afterward. Trauma explains someone’s behavior, but it doesn’t excuse it especially when they consciously repeat the same harm they went through. At some point, it’s no longer about what happened to him, it’s about what he’s doing to others. And if you can’t see that, you’re not defending a victim, you’re enabling an abuser.

Not reading all that gng and I’m 16 so I’d hope I am unemployed like what if you like 20 and fighting with a 16 year old that just makes you unemployed loser say what u want idc ik im right idc if u think im defending an abuser I said what I said so stay delulu and think you right I said this to her and I’ll say it to you stop reading if I can’t handle a redflag story

You can empathize with whatever you want, but it’s obvious you only want to hear what suits your own opinion. You emphasizing how u want to be unemployed and how its embarrassing we are "fighting" a 16 year old just show you are probably unloved and read yaoi bc nobody in real life truly like you or you want the validation you crave, so you retreat to reading yaoi and the internet to feel seen. You clearly don’t care about the harm an abuser causes unless they’re “good-looking” or fit some fantasy, which says a lot about your understanding of morality and empathy.
Your whole arugement is "if you can’t handle a red-flag story don’t read,” as if that a good reason. This is a comment section. People are allowed to analyze, critique, and call out characters for the pain they inflict. The internet isn’t a safe bubble where only your opinion matters. Your ego is massive for someone your age, and it makes it obvious why so many people prob dislike u.

Your probably shaking and your heart is pounding bc u know your wrong. You may be 16 but you were prob raised in the internet bc your parents don't like u and it show. Being 16 doesn’t excuse ignorance or a lack of empathy, and being raised online doesn’t give you insight into real emotional consequences. Learn to separate fantasy from reality, understand why abuse is never excusable, and get a life outside of internet validation. Maybe then you’ll understand why people critique characters like the ML instead of blindly defending them.
Empathy and self-awareness aren’t too late to learn, but it starts with admitting you don’t always get to be right just because you’re loud online.

OMG R U DUMB LIKE YOU CHOSE TO READ THIS AND YOUR COMPLAINING ABOUT THE STORY BC OF THE ML BEING A “RED FLAG” BUT HE. DOSEBT HOLD A CANDLELIGHT TO ACTUALLY RES FLAGS GET UR FAXS STRAIGHT IM NOT ACC SHAKING IDGAF BC IK IM RIGHT IM NOT THE ONE WRITING A WHOLE ESSAY THAT NO ONES GONNA READ TO PROVE MYSELF

Yeah this ML is trash and MC deserves better but girl you are seriously comparing this to killing stalking!? And putting rose and champagne in the same place as jinx that's just diabolical. Cesar SHOT leewon, r*ped him, confined him, kidnapped. I don't even have to explain killing stalking. This ML and jaekyung ARE red flags other two are BLACK flags. It is very important to learn the difference.
No, don't go back! So what if he dies? There are countless better men than the ML