is this a safe place.. am i allowed to say that I don’t like the uke.. like i'm trying i...

aurora August 15, 2025 9:03 pm

is this a safe place.. am i allowed to say that I don’t like the uke.. like i'm trying i swear but

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    bakaneko August 15, 2025 7:36 pm

    he pisses me off too so i just keep reminding myself that the kid got so much going on and he might be underdeveloped in some areas bc he barely fitted in when he was in the orphanage and the only light in his life (the older alpha uke) ain't fully emotionally available to show him proper communication or emotional regulation either so... it's complex. very interestingly realistic. the author did say that their progress will be frustrating but they'll come around eventually. it's understandable that you don't like him tho i'd say you better let it marinate until the good phase actually starts bro

    aurora August 15, 2025 9:02 pm

    NOOOO OMG wait i meant the uke but completely understand with what u wrote!!

    user458757899444889 August 16, 2025 3:25 am

    nah u right to not him

    bakaneko August 16, 2025 4:29 am
    NOOOO OMG wait i meant the uke but completely understand with what u wrote!! aurora

    FUUUCKKK I MUST'VE READ YOUR COMMENT WRONG BC I HAVEN'T BEEN SLEEPING AT ALL SORRYYY but yes i get it Haewon (the uke) pissed me off too!! he's actually the spitting image (personality-wise) to my teenage years many many years ago so i understand him, but it still irked me how he hasn't learned to communicate better despite being so much older than i did back then and he's even pining on a youngster like don't be with someone that young if you're emotionally unavailabe Haewon, what an ass!! sure he's got rough family situation too and i totally get where he's coming from since we're both sides of the same coin in a way but still, be more responsible as the adult that chose take in Yunoh he cant be fr

    LuvMeSmGae August 17, 2025 9:16 pm

    I mean, can you blame them? They’ve both been through some shit and never got therapy. The alpha is an ass, but I understand him. He feels like if he doesn’t do what the beta wants, he’ll be left alone and that terrifies him. For the longest time, he’s seen the beta as his only family, the only one he’s got. So to avoid losing him, he rashly (and insensitively) decided to get into a romantic relationship with the beta.

    As for the beta, he’s very sensitive emotionally. He’s seen the alpha date others and break up with them like it’s nothing. For the longest time, he never thought he’d have a chance. Even though now that he has the chance, he’s too insecure and he’s hurt because of the alpha being emotionally unavailable. He can’t stay happy even in those cute moments because he knows the alpha doesn’t have feelings for him(yet) and is only staying because he doesn’t want the beta to leave his side.

    It’s very complicated, but realistic imo. Both of them are being annoying, but I understand their point of views, so it’s hard to stay mad lol.