Man, i know Jiwon is in the wrong here but Im getting secondhand embarrassment at how he i...

Kcf August 18, 2025 1:18 pm

Man, i know Jiwon is in the wrong here but Im getting secondhand embarrassment at how he is acting because I relate to him so much. I acted the same way with my first relationship, wanting to learn from the mistakes of his ex, I tried to do everything opposite of what she did to the point I kept lying about my feelings and acting unbothered everytime. To the point I kept hurting myself and things just explode later on. I understand why Jiwon is acting this way, afterall, he is inexperienced, and with his traumatic past, his people pleasing attitude became a defense mechanism. I hope ML will understand him and help him get through this. He needs to gain confidence about himself

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    Hota-chan August 18, 2025 2:36 pm

    Kinda agree but at the same time is Jiwon himself the one who has to fix his personal problems for the sake of the relationship, not his partner the one who has to "fix him"

    Kcf August 18, 2025 10:04 pm
    Kinda agree but at the same time is Jiwon himself the one who has to fix his personal problems for the sake of the relationship, not his partner the one who has to "fix him" Hota-chan

    Oh, definitely. He has to start by fixing himself. I only meant that I hope ML would understand where he is coming from and support him once he does that change.