dropping this bc blondie pisses me off… the whole big alpha man who sleeps around and li...

Just say you read it with ur eyes closed

nah girl op's valid considering seoin's a rapist too

okay but he deserves ME. I've been here since day 1 please fuck off

Trust me im not a seoin apologist i hate how he treated yw in first season but brushing it off as big alpha man sleeps around Completely throws everything abt his character. Is he a piece of shit? Totally. But he is also self destructive and ashamed how he uses sex and bdsm to torture himself all this time

I may have made an unnecessary comment towards the op, but I think the backlight has what it sets apart from other nonsensical and plotless toxic manhwa

oh yeah that's valid, I do think seoins a well written character, esp how his past plays into his behaviour in the present. like if bro hadn't raped yw I'd probably be his biggest glazer ngl but yeah again that makes sense, though at the same time I can see why op dislikes him yk

SAME can we just delete those chapters pls

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I don’t think what’s valid is the reasoning behind op’s opinion lol. Their reason for disliking him was being a fckboy and bdsm thing, not rape. So that sums up the priorities right there lmao

i was gonna say people are allowed to dislike characters who sleep around a lot even if they're doing it to cope w their trauma, but oml just a few days ago i literally saw so many people slut shaming & hating on the uke in another manhwa (monochrome diary) when he was clearly using sex as a coping mechanism & it made me so SO mad so yeah youre probably right

I'm one of those people who wants to Seoin to have a full chase arc and wants him to proclaim "I love you" to Yeonwu until Yeonwu gets irritated by him. I know he's angry because Yeonwu didn't let him say his personal problems, but being so angry that he wants to rape him, is really horrible. I don't care if he sleeps around, but him wanting to see Yeonwu chase him around is the worst. I really want him to know that Yeonwu see him kiss his step brother so that he is forced to admit that he has feelings for him.

Even if you are traumatized, never put your loved one in a traumatizing position. Be Yeonwu, who is still kind to him.

guys.. dont take this too seriously okay.. im just sick of the trope + its clearly a joke bc i said I wanted the bottom

+++ also i didnt get to the part where blondies lore is explained nor did i even know there was rape LMAO i rlly just dropped it bc of the trope ok dont be mad at me

This is it.

I don't care what the characters do with others, I also don't mind if the main couple hurt each other if there's a valid reason.

But this "seme uses his own trauma as an excuse to cause the already traumatized uke even more trauma" just pisses me the fuck off every time. And the method is always rape. This is honestly getting old and it makes the characters look cheap instead of well written imo

Most of the time the main seme is the same or even worse than the other characters hurting the uke, but somehow I'm supposed to root for him more.

And what I hate even more is when the uke just takes it

THIS IS ALSO HOW I FEEL DUDE like as much as im into the uke bc hes sexy and all, i hate it sm when they dont stand up for themselves at the get go like i get its probably for character development but its just sooo overdone and frustrating to the point its unenjoyable

not too much on my boy yeongwoon him being too nice for his own good makes sense considering how he grew up (no but i usually hate pushover ukes *cough* like that fuckass kim dan *cough* BUT YW IS NOT LIKE THE OTHER UKES zero yw slander allowed here nuh uh

no slander at all its only the trope i hate dw, personally just cant handle characters that are too nice that they get taken advantage of

yup yup valid

Yup. I think our boy YW is not a pushover. He would run away if he can't take it anymore. And I think he will be "shame on me if you fool me twice" to ml based on chapter 1.

And I'm still angry at the abusers more than the victim. I've seen a lot of abusers, and I know that they really take advantage of people's weakness. And therapy is expensive or even frown upon in some cultures.

Victim blaming brings me back to the latest news about a man who was tortured to death on Kick (the streaming service). The victim endured this torture because he is poor, and the suspects really manipulated him.

Sorry to be rambly on a forum for a fictional story, but victim blaming is not really for me.