Is this really BDSM ?

Secret Reader Society August 19, 2025 5:47 pm

Sorry but I only see trashy sex and basic porno scene here... She gave her consent, all right. She has extreme fetish, okay. But BDSM is not just being "rough", is also about sensuality, no ?

Responses
    I_be_crying August 20, 2025 7:29 am

    Super unsure, i think its a wide range honestly. Like how sex can be soft and gentle it can also be quick and easy and it would still be sex.
    So im guessing this is a branch of BDSM we dont see much : Consensual non-con i think

    Secret Reader Society August 20, 2025 9:37 am

    Yeah, I don't see it this way ! They call that "rape play". Maybe it's because she doesn't have a proper "master" I can't feel the BDSM part. I can't stop thinking this webtoon don't show us people into BDSM, but people who use BDSM as excuse to do trashy things ( ̄∇ ̄")

    I_be_crying August 20, 2025 10:18 am
    Yeah, I don't see it this way ! They call that "rape play". Maybe it's because she doesn't have a proper "master" I can't feel the BDSM part. I can't stop thinking this webtoon don't show us people into BDSM, b... Secret Reader Society

    And ur absolutely correct imo. Its legit just assault porn under the guise of BDSM

    KinkKittn <3 August 20, 2025 12:14 pm

    To be factually correct, "Rape Play" is a form of BDSM. Just because you have strong feelings or opinions against it, does not take away from that. The key pillars of BDSM is "safe, sane, and consensual". The fact that she signs a contract with already agreed to terms, all participants are willingly bound to that contract (to honor and respect what she gave permission to have done to her), and the fact that they are ensuring her continued permission and safety (through safe words, check-ins, and hand signals) throughout the entire event, meets all those pillars of safety. Some people have more extreme fetishes than others. But all of this is 100% BDSM.

    KinkKittn <3 August 20, 2025 12:18 pm
    To be factually correct, "Rape Play" is a form of BDSM. Just because you have strong feelings or opinions against it, does not take away from that. The key pillars of BDSM is "safe, sane, and consensual". The f... KinkKittn <3

    BDSM is very wide and varied depending on people's tastes, and kinks. It can be rough or soft, gentle or hard, simple or extreme. It can be whatever you want it to be, as long as it is mutually agreed upon, it is within the realm of sane play, mutual respect for each other's body and safety is maintained throughout the entire "play scene", and everybody's safety is assured.