BRO THIS IS SOO BADD?? NO LIKE this isn't okay or 'not thaf bad' TRY TO TALK TO HER OR IDK? idk how old r u but just be careful and be safe!
Uhm i think you should try to take as many things as you want and move out (if you still live with her for college reasons) since you’re 20 it’s by law (i think) that your parents cant decide anything for you. You can sue your mom or choose to cut her from your life so she doesnt cause any future problems from you. Of course, I’m a stranger online so I don’t know fully know your situation, but this is what i would have done. I understand the things i said were hard but it’s solutions i thought of..
hey girl! I hope you're doing alright and that you know that so many people support and care about you. What your mom is doing is not okay at all. I definitely agree that if you aren't able to completely set boundaries and stop your mom from setting you up with these older men and planning behind your back the worst case scenario would be to move out. Moving out is difficult especially in our economy and if you don't have the right circumstances. Reaching out to any trusted friends or relatives find another solution whether that be moving out with their help or persuading your mom for you.
So do u all think it’s normal that my mother is choosing for me who I should get married to she secretly behind my back is texting a much older guys than me 10 years + I’m in my early 20s btw to get married to him cause she is familiar with him and is rich and I grew up with rlly strict parents not allowing me to ever date and choose who I wann be with even at my big age I still have trouble dating and feel guilty and extremely uncomfortable bcs of how I grew up taht I basically can’t imagine ever being with someone and I hate the fact so much taht she plans stuff behind my back and I find it so disgusting taht he is much older than me I told her I hate it so much and feel so extremely uncomfortable about the fact what she does and that I will never ever marry a guy like taht and never someone she chooses for me only if I choose se for myself if I ever found someone I like but she doesn’t listen at all and ignores me I feel so at lost and have no one to talk about this I feel extremely disgusted by the fact that my own mother does this shit sorry for the rant I just needed help rlly bad and feel extremely depressed right now I hate being a woman thats all :)