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i think about those last tropes, it's because the feeling of being prioritized is really nice. like you'd felt like a queen and her loyal knight.
i used to like those tropes too when i was younger, but now i'm more into men who's kind to everyone but even more so to their significant other, and badboys who's actually a little puppy on the inside(๑¯◡¯๑)
Ive always wondered why people are so obsessed with the "First Love Trope" maybe its because people are conditioned to believe first love equates to soulmates, no matter how toxic or emotionally draining the relationship, people.alwasy go back to the saying "love hurts" but I can never agree with this
I always want the healthier love not perfect love, cause I feel like people confuse this and its not the same.
Toxic relationships have been disguised as passionate and fiery in media for so long because it brings drama and intensity, it frustrates me how normalized it is. Especially when characters dont have proper growth, ive rarely come across good redemption arcs.
As a women, Ive never been sold on the "I can fix him" "I can turn a badboy into a good mab" and "he hates everyone but me" tropes but so many, ot honestly feels.like 98% of women are and I will never understand why..of course to each their own but ai just dont get it.