Y'all are over dramatic

Jemma August 24, 2025 6:28 am

I pity sejin but I do not blame Kwon Ido for his reaction. Compared to what Sejin deserved, he was being very lenient by just giving him the silent treatment. If this story was in Idos POV y'all would be hating on Sejin, grow up

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    Meow August 24, 2025 6:39 am

    True

    FluffyCatButt August 24, 2025 7:21 am

    My thoughts exactly lol.
    And tbh he never even meant for his brother to find Sejin.

    asmiir_ August 24, 2025 7:57 am

    True but he also kinda a bitch in the beginning even if Sejin came from the family of Haeshin.. he could’ve just kept it cordial and business like. But demeaning him and forcing heat suppressants on him is not cute even if the situation at the time was dire for Sejin lol. I get it though he couldn’t be bothered but then why intervene so much if he’d felt like it was all too much. The side stories helped answer with his POV so I was content

    I agree though that Ido isn’t totally at fault and that Sejin also has some blame in the communication breakdown

    Edea August 24, 2025 9:53 am

    Oh hell no, Ido himself had ulterior motives for the marriage. He planned to take over Sejin's father's company. He had no right to act like the victim when he did the same thing to Sejin.

    Jemma August 24, 2025 11:21 am
    True but he also kinda a bitch in the beginning even if Sejin came from the family of Haeshin.. he could’ve just kept it cordial and business like. But demeaning him and forcing heat suppressants on him is no... asmiir_

    Yh cos he hated his father and thought Sejin was some two faced conniving creature, that's why he was acting prickly with Sejin initially he started to realize that Sejin wasn't and started liking him just to be betrayed by Sejin who admittedly due to his upbringing couldn't even communicate properly. So from his POV Sejin deceived him just like he initially thought Sejin would, we the readers can empathize with Sejin because we're seeing things from his POV but the reality of it is that Sejin is quite literally hard to read for everyone else cos no one knew he well enough to until Ido regressed.

    FluffyCatButt August 24, 2025 11:43 am
    Yh cos he hated his father and thought Sejin was some two faced conniving creature, that's why he was acting prickly with Sejin initially he started to realize that Sejin wasn't and started liking him just to b... Jemma

    Indeed. Ido himself mentioned that Sejin was hard to read.

    FluffyCatButt August 24, 2025 11:44 am
    Oh hell no, Ido himself had ulterior motives for the marriage. He planned to take over Sejin's father's company. He had no right to act like the victim when he did the same thing to Sejin. Edea

    That evens out with Sejin's family accepting the marriage. It was widely said Sejin was beloved so Ido had every right to distrust him.

    Edea August 24, 2025 11:55 am
    That evens out with Sejin's family accepting the marriage. It was widely said Sejin was beloved so Ido had every right to distrust him. FluffyCatButt

    But this is about his recent bitchy attitude. He planned to betray but acted offended when he was "betrayed". It's ok for him to do it but he feels offended when it's done to him? That's hypocrisy.

    FluffyCatButt August 24, 2025 12:01 pm
    But this is about his recent bitchy attitude. He planned to betray but acted offended when he was "betrayed". It's ok for him to do it but he feels offended when it's done to him? That's hypocrisy. Edea

    I suppose you don't understand what you've been reading. Ido and Sejin started liking each other. The betrayal Ido felt was betrayal to his 'feelings' not 'fortune'. If it was betrayal to his 'fortune', Sejin would have ended up on the streets by now.

    Edea August 24, 2025 12:51 pm
    I suppose you don't understand what you've been reading. Ido and Sejin started liking each other. The betrayal Ido felt was betrayal to his 'feelings' not 'fortune'. If it was betrayal to his 'fortune', Sejin w... FluffyCatButt

    First of all, i don't know what that fortune is, so you're right about that. I don't understand.
    Second, here's the op:
    "I pity sejin but I do not blame Kwon Ido for his reaction. Compared to what Sejin deserved, he was being very lenient by just giving him the silent treatment. If this story was in Idos POV y'all would be hating on Sejin, grow up"

    I disagreed with this post because i know his pov and that makes me blame him more. "What Sejin deserved" is same thing Ido deserved. If Ido thinks it's right for him to punish Sejin then he also should be punished. Ido doesn't deserve to feel betrayed in the first place because his og plan was to betray. He's frustrated because of his pride, he's not even aware of his feelings for Sejin yet. He hates how he was beaten in his own game. He has the "I can do it to him but he can't do it to me" mentality.



    *****spoiler*****


    And this mentality will lead him to grape and forcefully imprint Sejin after he tries to leave and asks for divore.