Like I understand that he has this crazy anxiety, but at this point all you're doing is causing harm to the ml. You dont want a public relationship and are okay saying that you're single in front of your bf yet you get insecure when other people misinterpret the ml friendships with women.
Also, if your bf is texting you to call him and that he misses you, the least you can do is respond to his text even if it is just to say, "hey im in the bus, i miss you too, ill call you when i get off." Instead, you end up texting a group chat, totally ignoring the ml feelings and longing.
The healthiest thing the mc can do is just break up. If Mc really loved the ml he would work on himself, go to therapy or just separate himself from the relationship until he his ready to face his fears. And im not saying he should just break up without explaining or just ghosting him. He should at least have the balls to sit down with the ml and communicate the reasons for the break up.
Like I understand that he has this crazy anxiety, but at this point all you're doing is causing harm to the ml. You dont want a public relationship and are okay saying that you're single in front of your bf yet you get insecure when other people misinterpret the ml friendships with women.
Also, if your bf is texting you to call him and that he misses you, the least you can do is respond to his text even if it is just to say, "hey im in the bus, i miss you too, ill call you when i get off." Instead, you end up texting a group chat, totally ignoring the ml feelings and longing.
The healthiest thing the mc can do is just break up. If Mc really loved the ml he would work on himself, go to therapy or just separate himself from the relationship until he his ready to face his fears. And im not saying he should just break up without explaining or just ghosting him. He should at least have the balls to sit down with the ml and communicate the reasons for the break up.